bonded soft & slowbonded hard & fastpursuerpursued
openreservedverbalphysical
relationship roles
does more speaking
first to apologise
first to confess feelings
first to initiate a kiss
more attuned to needs
more likely to clean
more likely to cook
more likely to drive
more likely to end up in jail
more likely to propose
more of a caregiver
more popular/social
more relationship experience
most likely to die for the other
most likely to kill for the other
pursued the relationship
spoils/pampers the other
intimacy dynamics
domsubbottomtop
fastslowsoftrough
flirtatiousbashful
experiencedvirgin
high libidolow libido
vanillakinky
makes lovefucks
big spoon
little spoon
more comfortable in their body
more likely to initiate sex
the louder one
typically cums first
traits & personality
intenseeasy-going
givingselfish
arroganthumble
forgives easilyholds grudges
needs spaceneeds more attention
jealoussecure
smooth-talkerawkward
naïvesavvy
innocentdevious
possessivelax
in lovecontemptuous
gives giftsdoes favours
steals clotheslends clothes
'i can fix them''i can corrupt them'
vibe & divination
playlist
• coffee & tv - blur
• enjoy the silence - depeche mode
• glory box - portishead
• killing moon - echo & the bunnymen
• lovesong - the cure
• mad world - tears for fears
• sail to the moon - radiohead
• sunny afternoon - the kinks
• the lovecats - the cure
• waterloo sunset - the kinks
palettes
Michael
Chariot
Shared
tarot reading
strength: a bond defined by quiet courage, emotional resilience and the power of gentle patience over raw force
six of pentacles: a stable, healthy dynamic of mutual support where both partners feel equally valued and cared for
the sun: a future of absolute clarity, happiness and the healing warmth of being fully seen and loved
synastry
this connection is a powerhouse of stability and growth, anchored by an incredible "earth trine" that makes us a natural team for building a secure, successful future together. while there's plenty of spicy mental chemistry and magnetic attraction to keep things exciting, our greatest strength lies in how we ground one another; we have the rare ability to turn big dreams into tangible reality. it's a "power couple" dynamic where our differences act as the perfect puzzle pieces, ensuring that life together is never boring but always deeply supported